Love is a battlefield, sang Pat Benatar back in 1983, and that’s been true since monkeys got up and walked on two legs. The fact that men and women sometimes seem to come from two different planets is also not helpful when it comes to having a healthy and happy relationship. We’ve all been there: the confusion, the need for reassurance and the misunderstandings when you’re not totally sure what’s going on in his head just yet. Decoding the words and actions of your chosen one can be difficult, so we’ve made the process a bit simpler. If you’re looking for a sign that your man is falling for you, look out for any of these 20 things.