Veterinarians Shared The Telltale Signs That Someone Isn’t A Good Pet Owner

Dogs love bones, right? Well, not everything they love is good for them, as the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) announced in 2017. Veterinarian Carmela Stamper said, “Giving your dog a bone treat might lead to an unexpected trip to your veterinarian…[or] a possible emergency surgery.” The outcome could also be far worse — so look for a healthier alternative instead of animal bones. 

Cats have a reputation as milk-lovers, but many of them are lactose-intolerant. That means their bodies can’t process the sugars properly, leading to digestive problems. This isn’t true of all cats but milk’s irrelevant to their diet, so it’s not really worth the risk. Forget about canned tuna too — it lacks some of the necessary nutrients a feline needs. Too much could even give them mercury poisoning!  

Dogs and cats thrive on schedule and repetition — it’s how they learn. So don’t feed a pet from the table one day, then tell them off for begging at dinnertime. They learned the behavior from you! If you want to train your furry friend, keep lessons consistent or they won’t understand what you want from them. 

With work, family, and chores too, you probably lead a busy life. But pets don’t have the same level of stimulus as people, so you’re their main source of… well, everything. Spend time with them when you can, because a bored pet might find other, potentially more destructive ways to entertain themselves. 

And by space, we don’t mean personal space. It doesn’t matter whether you have a cat, dog, lizard or snake, all animal breeds come in different sizes with different needs. That means exercise, so don’t forget to provide your rabbit with a run or your feathered friend with a big-enough cage and space to stretch its wings.

Seems logical to shave off your pet’s fur in the summer, right? Wrong. Dogs and cats sweat through their paws. Fur actually protects their bodies from outside sources, so whether you’re removing it for temperature or cosmetic reasons, you shouldn’t do it. And if you need to remove their coat for any reason, leave it to the professionals. 

It’s natural to assume that if your pet is still eating, they’re still hungry. But the truth is, dogs and cats will often eat as much as they can, regardless of how full their stomach is. It’s a bad idea to keep the food bowl topped up all the time, so stick to a scheduled feeding routine or your pet will pile on the pounds. 

Canine behavior consultant Anthony Newman told magazine Reader’s Digest in 2021, “Too many people have the impression that raising a calm, peaceful, social, respectful, patient, obedient dog requires constantly feeding them treats.” This isn’t the best idea, though. Pets won’t respond to other training methods, and all those treats won’t be good for your furry friend, either. 

Your food lifestyle-choice is up to you, but it’s not always appropriate for your pet. An animal’s body is designed to live on a specific diet to process all the nutrients it needs. For example, cats are carnivores by necessity, so they can’t become vegetarians or vegans and stay healthy, no matter how much you might want them to change their eating habits. Maybe consider a rabbit instead! 

If you like the way an animal looks, research its breed first to make sure you’re making the right choice. Some people get huskies because they look cool without considering how much exercise they need. And shelters get lots of cats simply because people don’t find them photogenic! It’s not about looks, it’s about companionship.

Sometimes it’s hard to understand animals, right? But they generally don’t change ingrained habits or schedules for no reason. That means if they start doing something different, whether it’s behavior, diet, or even toilet habits you should pay attention. The cause could indicate a decline in your best friend’s health. 

It might sound counter-intuitive, but many experts — including the American Veterinary Medical Association (AVMA) — advise keeping cats indoors. Veterinarian Jane Brunt told website Web MD, “Allowing cats outdoors increases their risk of being injured and exposed to infectious diseases such as feline leukemia virus (FeLV) and feline immunodeficiency virus (FIV).” If you have the space, consider an outdoor enclosure to give your cats some time with nature. 

Birds aren’t the only animals that come with bills! Sit down with your finances to decide if you can afford a pet. Admittedly sometimes unforeseen expenses pop up, and that can’t be helped. But you should also take into account your companion’s food, vaccinations, veterinary bills, toys and a host of other things if you want to be a good pet parent. 

Regular grooming for long-furred dog and cat breeds is commonly overlooked by rookie owners. Instead, many of them try to cut out the resulting knots. “This is a mistake,” vet Christie Long told website Insider in 2021, “because it can be difficult to determine where the mat ends and the ear itself begins, it's easy to cut the ear.”

Ever hear of the alpha concept, where you should try to be a dominant leader to your dog? The truth is, not even wolf packs work this way, so it’s even more wrong-headed behavior to display towards domesticated dogs. The bad news is it’s still a widely-believed fact, and could actually be detrimental to many canine training routines.

In 2021 a veterinarian on Reddit wrote, “I wish people just even had a basic understanding of dog or cat body language… The number of videos posted on Reddit of animals in distress and it’s tagged as, ‘Oh my little fluffster is so cute when he plays!’ or whatever makes my blood boil.” Learn how to read your pet to make both your lives easier. 

Unless you’re a licensed breeder, you should spay and neuter your pets. There are lots of myths around this, such as the process will make your pal different in some way, but it doesn’t make your cat or dog more lethargic. It prevents aggression towards other animals, reduces cancer risks, and you won’t get unexpected babies you can’t look after. It’s win-win. 

A veterinary nurse of ten years’ standing told website Bored Panda in 2021 that “if you’re not willing to train your pet” then “90 percent of your pets behavioral issues are your fault.” This is less of a problem for cats — though even they can be trained — but many new dog owners overlook this vital duty. 

Animals show and enjoy receiving affection in lots of contrasting ways, and birds are a good example to consider. Don't try to cuddle them like a dog or cat, new owners! It’s not good for your feathered friend. According to website Best Friends, birds prefer being stroked around the head, neck or feet. Anywhere else might be considered a mating ritual, which can cause future behavioral problems. 

Yeah, that’s right. Some pet parents want their pals to become mothers themselves to experience the ‘joys’ of childbirth. But animals aren’t like humans. And if you don’t intend to keep the babies — which may even be a litter — then all that awaits the mother is the experience of separation.

Removing a cat’s claws is a thing and it totally shouldn’t be. “I am a vet,” someone volunteered on Bored Panda. “Do not get a cat and then expect me to amputate its toes because you don't want it scratching the furniture. I refuse to perform declaws on cats because most of the time it is a mutilation for the cosmetics of a couch.” 

Retractactable leashes are both a blessing and a curse. On the one hand, they’re great for giving your dog space to run with imposed limitations of your choosing. On the other hand, you have to remember to lock them in place so your furry friend doesn’t run riot. If you use retractable leashes, use them responsibly. 

Pet parents trust their furbabies, but when they play together with human children you should always watch them. Even if they mean no harm, a happy animal can knock a kid over or play-fight too hard. Don’t forget, teach your child to respect animal boundaries and raise them as animal-lovers, too. 

“Over 10 million pets are lost every year,” Reader’s Digest reports, and that’s partially because they’re not microchipped. Priority one when you get a new furbaby should be buying and activating a microchip identifier. Should your lost pet get found by well-wishers, animal rescue can use the chip’s contact info to locate you, thus saving you some sleepless nights. 

Cats have a persnickety reputation, and that extends to their toilet habits. They don’t like to share anything, including litter boxes. The experts at Purina suggest you have one box per cat, plus an extra one spaced out around your house. Otherwise, the amount of waste your cats kick out is on you. Maybe literally.

Dog owners beware: some flowers are poisonous to your pet. Michelson Found Animals Foundation’s executive director Aimee Gilbreath told Reader’s Digest, “Many of nature’s beauties have ugly side-effects,” adding, “You’d think your pup would be smart enough to not eat your floral arrangement, but vets see plenty of these cases every year.”

If you’re new to animal care, you might think starting small is the best way to prepare for a bigger pet. You may want to reconsider, though. Even smaller animals have very specific needs. Take guinea pigs, for example — because they’re social animals, did you know experts suggest buying them in pairs? 

Dog-lovers often anthropomorphize their pal, but Motley Zoo Animal Rescue’s executive director, Jme [sic] Thomas, explained, “Your dog is the equivalent of a human three-year-old.” They can be incredibly smart, but don’t ask too much of them. Thomas elaborated, “All you are doing is endangering your beloved dog for your own selfish needs and desires.” 

A cat’s whiskers are among its most sensitive body parts, so take that into account when you buy pet bowls. Containers that are too narrow or deep rub against them which can result in whisker fatigue. It sounds made-up, but it’s a real condition! It can make cats stressed, irritable and even aggressive. 

Pet Sitters International’s vice president Beth Stultz-Hairston told Reader’s Digest, “Just because someone is a loving pet-owner doesn’t mean they’re qualified to be a pet sitter.” Sitting’s an easy job to pick up if you’re strapped for cash, so there’s lots of people offering their services. Ask for credentials and vet your sitters carefully.

One Redditer’s girlfriend used to be a vet tech and advised you to stay with your pet should the worst happen and they need to be put to sleep. It will keep your buddy calm at the end. But if you absolutely can’t control your grief, avoid upsetting them and leave them to the veterinarians. Just do the best for your friend, as they would do for you. 

Remember how dogs are mentally like children? Well, when they whimper with fear, you’re going to want to comfort them. Yet this concept is beyond them. Instead, you’re starting a negative feedback loop that tells your dog they will get attention by whimpering. No matter how much it hurts, let them cry it out. 

Some people think a dog’s stomach is strong enough to take spoiled food. It’s not, and that’s why you shouldn’t let them go through your trash in their search for tasty snacks. “Dogs who eat trash could get food poisoning or pancreas problems,” WebMD reported. “Spoiled products may also have toxic mold.” 

Dogs love walkies, but at the height of summer the sidewalk can get so hot you can practically fry an egg on it. According to Ben Williamson of People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals (PETA), just a minute’s contact with hot asphalt can burn a dog’s paw pads. Check roads on a hot day and always pack plenty of water for both you and your dog. 

Pets pick up all sorts of unwanted housemates, including worms, fleas and ticks. They don’t seem like a big deal at first, but parasites can spread to people and quickly cause a host of health problems, pun not intended. See your vet about parasite prevention and treatment methods, but don’t ignore the problem — it will usually only get worse.

When your pet pees on the carpet or eats something it shouldn’t, don’t yell at them: they don’t understand why you’re shouting and it will just scare them. Instead, try using positive reinforcement. Instead of punishing bad behavior, reward good behavior instantly. It’s a more effective training tool and it won’t distress your buddy. 

The internet makes you feel like veterinary advice is just a browser search away, but resist the urge! If your pet’s health is at risk there’s no substitute for a professional vet, whether it’s online home remedies or an unofficial source like a breeder or groomer without a medical licence. 

If you’ve got more than one pet and you want to introduce them, don’t assume their first meeting will go well, regardless of their temperaments. If you can, try and do it slowly and away from home — in a park, for example — and keep them separated at first. It might take multiple meetings for your friends to get along, even with positive reinforcement. 

It can be hard to resist bedtime snuggles with your best bud, but don’t let them get on the bed. It’s the best thing for both of you. Not only is it unsanitary — pets may carry small particles on their feet from doing their business — animals and humans have different bedtime patterns. Trying to combine them will just disrupt you both. 

This is the big one. It’s a widely-held belief that rubbing your pet’s nose in their business after a toilet-training accident will teach them a lesson. It won’t. All it will do is make them scared and associate that fear with going to the toilet, perpetuating a fear cycle that will only make potty training harder.